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The
Things That Really Matter
P.U.S.H.
Empty Chair
The
Things That Really Matter
A philosophy professor stood before
his class and had some items in front of him. When class began,
wordlessly he picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded
to fill it with rocks right to the top, rocks about 2" diameter.
He then asked the students if the jar was full? They agreed that
it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them in to the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course,
rolled into the open areas between the rocks. The students laughed.
He asked his students again if the jar was full? They agreed that
yes, it was. The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured
it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
"Now," said the professor, "I want you to recognize that this is
your life. The rocks are the important! things - your family, your
partner, your health, your children - anything that is so important
to you that if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed. The
pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller
scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, your house,your
car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff. If you put the
sand or the pebbles into the jar first, there is no room for the
rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your energy
and time on the small stuff, material things, you will never have
room for the things that are truly most important. Pay attention
to the things that are critical in your life. Play with your children.
Take your partner out dancing There will always be time to go to
work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal."
Take care of the rocks first! - the things that really matter. Set
your priorities. The rest is just pebbles and sand.
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P.U.S.H.
Subject: P.U.S.H A man was sleeping
one night in his cabin when suddenly his room filled with light,
and God appeared. The Lord told the man he had work for him to do,
and showed him a large rock in front of his cabin. The Lord explained
that the man was to push against the rock with all his might. So,
this the man did, day after day. For many years he toiled from sun
up to sun down, his shoulders set squarely against the cold, massive
surface of the unmoving rock, pushing with all of his might. Each
night the man returned to his cabin sore and worn out, feeling that
his whole day had been spent in vain. Since the man was showing
discouragement, the Adversary (Satan) decided to enter the picture
by placing thoughts into the weary mind: "You have been pushing
against that rock for a long time, and it hasn't moved." Thus, he
gave the man the impression that the task was impossible and that
he was a failure. These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the
man. Satan said, "Why kill yourself over this? Just put in your
time, giving just the minimum effort; and that will be good enough."
That's what the weary man planned to do, but decided to make it
a matter of prayer and to take his troubled thoughts to the Lord.
"Lord," he said, "I have labored long and hard in your service,
putting all my strength to do that which you have asked. Yet, after
all this time, I have not even budged that rock by half a millimeter.
What is wrong? Why am I failing? The Lord responded compassionately,
"My friend, when I asked you to serve Me and you accepted, I told
you that your task was to push against the rock with all of your
strength, which you have done. Never once did I mention to you that
I expected you to move it. Your task was to push. !And now you come
to Me with your strength spent, thinking that you have failed. But,
is that really so? Look at yourself. Your arms are strong and muscled,
your back sinewy and brown; your hands are callused from constant
pressure, your legs have become massive and hard. Through opposition
you have grown much, and your abilities now surpass that which you
used to have. True, you haven't moved the rock. But your calling
was to be obedient and to push and to exercise your faith and trust
in My wisdom. That you have done. Now I, my friend, will move the
rock." At times, when we hear a word from God, we tend to use our
own intellect to decipher what He wants, when actually what God
wants is just a simple obedience and faith in Him. By all means,
exercise the faith that moves mountains, but know that it is still
God who moves the mountains. When everything seems to go wrong ...
just P.U.S.H.! When the job gets you down ... just P.U.S.H.! When
people don't react the way you think they should ...just P.U.S.H.!
When your money is "gone" and the bills are due ... just P.U.S.H!
When people just don't understand you just ...
P.U.S.H.!
P= Pray
U= Until
S= Something
H= Happens
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The Empty Chair
A man's daughter had asked the local
minister to come and pray with her father. When the minister arrived,
he found the man lying in bed with his head propped up on two pillows.
An empty chair sat beside his bed. The minister assumed that the
old fellow had been informed of his visit. "I guess you were expecting
me," he said. "No, who are you?" said the father. The minister told
him his name and then remarked, "I see the empty chair; I figured
you knew I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the
bedridden man. "Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the minister
shut the door. "I have never told anyone this, not even my daughter,"
said the man. "But all of my life I have never known how to pray.
At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went
right over my head." "I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old
man continued, "until one day four years ago my best friend said
to me, "Johnny, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation
with Jesus. Here is what I suggest." "Sit down in a chair; place
an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair.
It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.'
Then just speak to him in the same way you're doing with me right
now." "So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple
of hours every day. I'm careful though. If my daughter saw me talking
to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send
me off to the funny farm." The minister was deeply moved by the
story and encouraged the old man to continue on the journey. Then
he prayed with him, anointed him with oil, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the minister that her
daddy had died that afternoon. "Did he die in peace?" he asked.
"Yes, when I left the house about two o'clock, he called me over
to his bedside, told me he loved me and kissed me on the cheek.
When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead.
But there was something strange about his death. Apparently, just
before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on the chair
beside the bed. What do you make of that?" The minister wiped a
tear from his eye and said, "I wish we could all go like that."
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